Frequently Asked Questions
Please see below for answers to some common questions. If you have a question that isn’t listed here, feel free to reach out to the bride or groom, we’re happy to help!
What should I wear?
We’ve outlined dress codes for both Friday and Saturday. See below for details and inspiration for each day’s events.
Welcome Party (Friday)
Dressy Casual
We’ll be celebrating at CRU, so think coastal, chic, and comfortable. For men, a sport coat or blazer with a dress shirt and pants (no tie needed). For women, a tasteful mini/midi dress, or a flowy maxi dress fits beautifully. Please skip flip-flops. Dressy sandals, wedges, or flats are appropriate for women, and loafers or dress shoes for men. There is no specific color code, but we encourage guests to embrace light, summery colors that feel fresh and season-appropriate. Most importantly, wear something you feel great in and ready to celebrate!
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Ceremony and Reception (Saturday)
Formal
The attire for both the ceremony and reception is formal. Men should wear a suit and tie with dress shoes. Women should wear floor or ankle length, long dresses, paired with wedges, heels, or dressy sandals. Please note that cocktail hour will be held on the lawn at the White Elephant, so we recommend avoiding thin or pointy heels that may sink into the grass. There is no specific color palette for guests; however, the groomsmen will be in navy tuxedos and the bridesmaids will be wearing light, baby blue long dresses. We encourage guests to embrace light, summery colors to complement the setting and kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white, ivory, or cream.
Can I bring a plus one?
Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests whose names are listed on the invitation. If you have been given a plus one, their name or “and guest” will be included on the outer envelope of your invitation.
Are children invited?
We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding an adults-only event. We kindly ask that children not attend, so all guests can fully relax and enjoy the day.
What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
The ceremony will begin promptly at 2:00 PM. We kindly encourage guests to arrive at 1:45pm, at least 15 minutes early to allow time to be seated. If you plan on driving, please note that parking in town is limited, so we recommend allowing at least 30 minutes to find parking.
How do I get to the ceremony and reception?
All guests are responsible for their own transportation to both the ceremony and reception. If you are not staying within walking distance, we recommend taking a taxi or rideshare to the church to avoid parking challenges. Please note that parking at both venues is limited and street parking only.
Are the ceremony and the reception at the same location?
They are not, but they are very close. The ceremony will take place at St. Mary’s Church, and the reception will be held at the White Elephant. The two locations are approximately 0.5 miles or a 10-minute walk apart.
What should I do in the time between the ceremony and reception?
The ceremony will conclude around 3:00 PM, and cocktail hour will begin at 5:00 PM at the White Elephant. This break allows the bride and groom, along with their families and wedding party, time for photos. We encourage guests to explore town or return to their accommodations to relax and freshen up before the reception. We kindly ask that guests not arrive at the White Elephant until cocktail hour begins at 5:00 PM.
When do I need to RSVP by and what if I don't RSVP in time?
Kindly submit your RSVP by May 1st. Due to venue and planning constraints, we will only be able to accommodate guests who have RSVP’d by this date.
What should I do if I have dietary restrictions?
No problem at all! Please let us know of any food allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP, as accommodations can be made for specific requests. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to us directly.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that our ceremony be an unplugged ceremony, especially as it will be a traditional Catholic Mass. Please refrain from using phones or cameras during the ceremony. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say “I do.” We have professional photographers capturing the moment, so there’s no need to take photos on your phone. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos as you’d like.